Are they Martians? Aliens? Who are really toxic people? They are normal and ordinary people, who do not even have to be bad people. They are negative and spread their bitterness to those around them. Alziur knows this very well because she, for a while, was surrounded by people like that and she didn’t know if she was doing the right thing when she made the decision to get away from them. Now, in the distance, she is aware that she did the right thing and, therefore, she wants to help those who are going through a similar situation. She Attentive to her advice to learn to detect toxic people and stay away from them! 
How to spot toxic people
These types of people have certain common characteristics:
- They are excessively negative and spread those bad vibrations among those closest to them.
- They don’t believe in themselves or in you, and they will let you know, thus diminishing your self-esteem. When you arrive with your joy and spontaneity, telling about your upcoming plans and projects, they throw them to the ground because they are not happy.
- They spend all day complaining, if it’s cold, if it’s hot, if they’re tired, but the worst thing is that they never do anything to change it. If you spend a lot of time with them, you end up incorporating their same speech into your life or, what is worse, agreeing with them.
- They have many complexes. When they meet someone successful and with virtues, they feel threatened. Instead of being inspired by people who have something good, what they do is criticize them because they would like to be like them.
- They stand out for their victimhood. They manage to make themselves look like the poor things and make others feel sorry for them, making you believe that you are to blame for everything or that you are the bad guy in the movie.
- They are quite superb. They live in the pit of bitterness about it and they want you to be in it. If you disagree with them, they will not like you at all and what they will do is ignore you or even confront you.
- They are very absorbing because they spend all day telling you about their problems and look for your flaws so that you are also in their same situation. Whenever you have a problem they will be there, but when things are going well for you they will not be sincerely happy for you, because they want you to be just as frustrated as they are.
How to deal with toxic people
- If you want to erase from your life these toxic people who do not contribute anything to you, here we bring you the advice that Alziur gives us: Stay away from them. It sounds easy, but since it can be complicated, each one has to analyze what kind of relationship they have with these people and make a decision. What you can do is walk away little by little or tell them directly, but do it because it is not convenient to be with these types of people, you run the risk of ending up like them!
- In cases where you cannot avoid them because it is a relative or a co-worker, you have two options depending on the type of toxic person they are: one is to ignore them, in the sense that what they do does not affect you. tell you; second, if it is very harmful and it is going to get you, break your losses.