Summer is here, or what is the same, the season to show off your palm, to wear little clothes, to hang out at the pool or on the beach with friends, family and with that new partner with whom you have only been a few weeks or a few months. And this is where your doubts, your fears, your anxieties begin… Your boy will call you one day and propose you to make a plan outdoors in which you must put your bikini or swimsuit in your backpack, yes or yes. And, although you have already had the occasional encounter over the weeks, the fact that he sees you in broad daylight with very little clothing makes you very, very embarrassed. Will I stop liking him? What will he think when he sees that I have love handles? How will he react when he finds out I have some cellulite? Some girls think that it is a litmus test and that after this test, your relationship seems to last. But since what worries you is to face this situation with a note, we have prepared a series of weighty arguments to back down these fears that do not let you enjoy a day at the beach or pool with your boy.
How to get over the embarrassment of him seeing me in a bikini
- Because life is two days and you have to make the most of it, we have to try so that fears do not block us, that they do not paralyze us, that they are not an obstacle to moving forward in our day. Many times it is difficult, because the mind is much more powerful than the desire and the heart that we put into things, but the mind, as if it were a muscle, can be trained so that when it says fear it wants to express happiness. To do this, follow our following and tips and… enjoy your best summer in love!
- Has your guy seen you naked yet? So why are you so afraid that your body will now reject it? He loves you and accepts you as you are, because this guy has shown it, so scratch off.
- How do you feel? It is clear that few women feel 100% happy with their body, because we always want to improve something. Some say they are very high, others lower; others that have a lot of chest, others that little; some that their hips are very wide, others that they are very narrow… Take the test and ask one of your friends, you will see how they also have their complexes! (and the one that doesn’t, lies!).
- Don’t even think about comparing. Be honest, does it bother you that he sees you with almost no clothes on or what really embarrasses you is that he will do it surrounded by more people, that is, more girls who, like you, are enjoying a day at the beach? Perhaps your problem is not that he is going to see you in a bikini or swimsuit, it is that you compare yourself with the others and you think that he will.
- A very easy trick that will help you a lot is to choose a swimsuit or bikini that fits your body shape. For example, if you want to hide your chest, don’t wear a top with ruffles or a lot of patterns; If, on the other hand, you want to cover your stomach a bit, opt for a swimsuit. Wide hips? Thin strap bottom. Also play with tones: dark colors tend to slim down and light tones tend to hide less. Lastly, and following our fashion advice, team up with accessories: a hat, a maxi bag, a kafkan, a pareo… It’s up to you!
- And the? Have you started to think that the same phrase that you have been repeating to yourself every day “I’m ashamed that he sees me in a bikini” may also be going through his head. Boys, even if they are tougher, are as sensitive to these things as we are, so maybe it’s something you can talk about before heading to your beach or pool date. Maybe he is in your same situation.
- Lastly, think about what you have to gain and what you stand to lose if you say no. Are you going to give up a fun day at the beach with that person who drives you crazy? Are you not going to go for a dip with him on any summer day? You can say no, but the plan of being at home with no air conditioning and 40 degrees doesn’t really sound appealing, does it? Well, say no more, take your bag, put what you need and… give yourself a bath of love with your boy!