Since Obama popularized his “Yes, we can” internationally, there are many who have made this motto of “we can” their own to achieve the most varied objectives. We are not going to be less and, in the search for our priority goal, which is to be happy, we have discovered the necessary steps to go from “I can’t do it” to “I did it”. A path to overcome fears, obstacles, difficulties, discouragement and find that psychological strength that we all have within us, which is in charge of bringing us closer to our dreams.
Reasons for not being able to do it
- There are many reasons that keep us from our dreams, our objectives and our goals, but all of them can be overcome with a positive attitude and the conviction that we can do it. Perhaps the main obstacle that prevents us from launching ourselves to achieve something is a lack of self-esteem, insecurity and the belief that we either do not deserve it or are not capable of achieving it.
- This lack of self-confidence is closely related to another of the reasons why we get stuck without taking a step forward, which is the dependence on the opinion of others. Whatever it is that you want to achieve, if someone tells you that it is impossible, it is very easy for you to immediately give up on your project.
- But fear is the greatest brake to achieve our dreams. We are afraid because we do not know what awaits us on the road to success, but above all, we are afraid of failure. What happens if we don’t make it? The truth is that if we hold firm to our goal, we can keep trying as many times as necessary.
Because your worth it
- For all these reasons, a change in attitude is very important, which will lead us step by step to achieve what we want. Learn to take the step from “I can’t” to “I want to do it”, to continue in “I’m going to try” and start optimistically to envision a “I can do it”. From there, the conviction of “I will get it” is reached, which is the step prior to celebrating the end of the road with “I did it”.
- If you have a project in mind, go for it. Do not listen to those who tell you that it is crazy, that it is impossible, that you will not be able to achieve it and look for strength in yourself and in all those people who do trust you. Surround yourself with positive energy, because it is indeed not going to be an easy path. So throw away all the negative things (people and thoughts) that stand between you and your goal.
- Delete the word impossible from your dictionary and use your effort and enthusiasm to get where you want. And if you fail once, you try again. And if you come across an obstacle, you take a detour, but keep going because we are sure that you will make it.