It seems that life cannot be enjoyed without a relationship, a million friends and a hectic daily activity, but it is not. Undoubtedly, you can be happy with a partner, with a family, with your friends around you and with your leisure time full of activities, but reality sometimes does not fit this model and you do not have to give up feeling good. We tell you how to enjoy solitude, how you can be happy alone.
The advantages of loneliness
- We live in a hurry and with stress. And also with a sick need to fill every second of our time doing something. Something interesting, something fabulous, something worthy of an Instagram photo. We live in such a hurry trying to do as many things as possible that we forget the most important thing, which is to know ourselves, and that is something that can only be done alone.
- Introspection is that exercise through which a person reaches inside to get to know himself better, to enhance his strong points, to reduce his weaknesses, to find out what makes him happy, to accept himself, to like himself more. But not everyone wants to see who they really are and therefore they are afraid of loneliness. Because one is never alone, he can always enjoy his own company.
- Solitude has its advantages and also many benefits, but perhaps the greatest benefit is to gain enough freedom and independence to be happy. When you learn to be comfortable with yourself and when your only company doesn’t bother you, that’s when the miracle of feeling stronger and more powerful occurs.
Things you can do and enjoy in solitude
- How many times have you given up visiting a place because you didn’t have company? Traveling alone is one of the most enriching experiences and on the trip you will find yourself stronger and happier.
- The pleasure of spending a Saturday afternoon lying on the sofa with a cup of tea and a book in your hands is not something you can or want to share with anyone else.
- Do you know someone who is able to keep up with you watching series? Then it will be better to enjoy it alone.
- We will not tire of repeating that physical exercise is essential to feel good about yourself. And you don’t need anyone to go for a run, hike or get fit for an hour at the gym.
- You live alone? Congratulations. Now you can do all the experiments you want in the kitchen, eat healthier, richer and make your favorite dishes.
- Who said that you need someone else to enjoy sex? Undoubtedly, sex in company is fine, but you can also enjoy yourself alone.
- Making a blog is very fashionable and today almost everyone has one. It is a very liberating activity because you can bring your feelings to light or put your passion into practice.
- Alone you can pamper yourself and give all the whims you want. An afternoon of shopping without reporting to anyone, a relaxing foam bath, making an appointment for a massage… whatever is within your reach.
- We claim pleasure and the right to do nothing, to enjoy doing absolutely nothing, forgetting about the clock, about schedules, about responsibilities. And that’s something you can only do solo.