The goal in this life is to be happy but to achieve it we have to go through a long path of difficulties that prevent us from enjoying life as we deserve. The secret is to maintain a positive attitude at all times, but we have to admit that this is not always possible. And it is that there are things that worry us in this life or that make us lose sleep, as verified by a study carried out by Dacron, a brand specialized in filling fibers for pillows and duvets.
There are three things in life
- There is a bolero that always says “there are three things in life: health, money and love…”, and indeed those three things are what most concern us Spaniards. In the first place is health, something that is essential for us to be able to continue our path towards happiness. It is, therefore, a logical concern and everyone who has been afflicted with a serious illness knows it well.
- Money is the second reason for concern, even if they say that “money does not bring happiness.” A phrase that surely comes from a person who did not have any economic problem, nor difficulties to pay the mortgage, nor a miserable salary with which to support his family. Because our interest in money is not in order to lead a life of luxury and eccentricity, but what matters most to us is keeping our job, or finding one to be able to face daily expenses.
- Love ranks as the third reason that prevents us from falling asleep. Perhaps that is why the night is the territory of impossible loves. However, what worries us the most is not finding true love, but relationship problems that cause us the most sleeplessness. Indeed, a couple’s argument, if you don’t know how to solve it in time, can lead us to spend days and days of authentic agony.
Deal with worries
- It is not bad that we worry about certain aspects of life, especially if it is the three mentioned. The problem appears when our degree of concern is excessive and prevents us from enjoying what we have. And something that many people do not take into account is the degree of responsibility that one has in maintaining one’s health, getting a job and enjoying love.
- Because there are times when the disease appears without being able to avoid it, but other times the different ailments attack us due to unhealthy lifestyle habits. We also have to do our part. The same happens with work, although right now it is not the ideal situation to have economic stability, you can always take advantage of the moment of crisis to reinvent yourself.
- Our love life also depends on us. We do not have to limit ourselves to understanding love as exclusive to a couple. If you have not found your prince charming, it will be because you are important enough to shine with your own light. So continue to shower your family and friends with affection and you will not lack love.